We all have heard it at one time or another if not in our professional lives then in our personal lives, “you need to be more positive” or “you are being negative.” The downside of positivity in the workplace leaves many of us grinning when we don’t want to. I believe this buzzword of positivity gets thrown around way too often.
We are expected to walk around work with a sort of rictus grin on at all times and figure out a way to dance around issues. If there is a problem to me it’s much easier to take the problem on head on and not have to sugar coat everything.
Besides problem solving there is the general air of positivity that is requested in the workplace. I don’t know about you but sometimes when I get that toothy grin and over enthusiastic greeting from a co-worker at 7:00 am some questionable thoughts run through my head. It’s always interesting to me in our culture we have so many outlets in books, movies, television, and music that can focus on “negative” scenarios or content but we try so hard to eliminate any of those emotions from the workplace.
There was a method I was introduced to called the six thinking hats which is designed to force people to think of things in a variety of ways. Even with this method there are several hats that can be considered “negative.” We have to think about things from every angle to come up with a solution and sometimes that includes negative emotions.
Used successfully by thousands of business managers, educators, and government leaders around the world, Six Thinking Hats offers a practical and uniquely positive approach to making decisions and exploring new ideas.
You can use them in a way to use parallel thinking or lateral thinking so that the group is staying focused while solving a problem. Eliminating the need for everyone to remain positive. Try having everyone wear the same thinking hat and come up with ideas, and then all change to a new thinking hat together. You can also have everyone in group wear a different hat and this will bring out other point of views.
Be sure to check out Edward de Bono’s book Six Thinking Hats for a deeper dive into this method!
Let’s be ok with just being ok and sometimes presenting the downsides of things. If everyone is so focused on the positive we can miss out on some serious concerns around an issue. We don’t all have to be a shining example of being a high energy beaming ray of sunshine at all times.
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